Freedom doula: inter-generational Transformation; Breaking the cycle of maternal ABuse, neglect, disconnect and Distortion.
Calling Mothers, Fathers, Parents, Humans..
Transform the way you experience life, and establish new patterns of presence, unwavering connection, unconditional love, protection, guidance and nurturance in your maternal lineage.
Are you ready to release inter-generational trauma, beliefs and conditioning? Are you ready to step up confidently, into the life you choose? Are you ready to heal the relationship you have with yourself? With your children? With your Mother?
What is the MOTHER WOUND?
Have you ever felt invisible to you mother? Have you ever longed for her love even if she was right there? Do you have a deep hunger that is never satiated? Have you felt that although you were clothed, fed and kept dry, you were emotionally neglected or abused, gaslit, competed with, or maybe you had to do the emotional holding for your mother?
The Mother Wound, at its best, is being raised by a Mother who is unavailable to their children's emotional needs. If a child's need for unconditional love and nurturance is unfulfilled, this creates havoc and massive injury in the development of that child, leaving them with a gaping wound that bleeds into all areas of their life thereafter.
Has this form of wounding seeped into your life in the form of hyper independence, co-dependent and or insecure or disorganised attachment styles that hurt yourself and others? Has it impacted your self worth and ability to nourish yourself ? Have you felt it in the way you speak to yourself, or others? Do you look to others for validation? Do you struggle to love and respect women in your life? Do you feel shy or inhibited and stop yourself from doing things that would delight your soul? Do you have a difficult relationship with money? How is your communication with others? Has the mother wound manifested as a subtle or not so subtle disconnect from your own children? Are you a parent with an estranged adult child? Have you experienced being triggered and subsequently reacted in familial situations which leave you guilt and shame filled? I know this experience, and I see you.
There is a whole spectrum of traits and behaviour that our unhealed mother wounds can manifest into. Often times it can be a disconnect, anxiety, grief, apathy, anger and feelings of self loathing. We can be irritated with our children, triggered or even resort to the neglectful or abusive behaviours that were done to us.
Parenting the children in front of us while reparenting ourselves is one of the most difficult parts of parenting!
It is my desire to support parents in breaking the mother wound cycle, so that we can all rest in safety and peace.
This inter-generational trauma is not something that started with us, yet it can stop with us, even when we have already had our children.
Whether you are at the beginning of your parenthood journey, or are neck deep in parenthood or grand-parenthood, I see you. There IS another way! You are not broken. You are the cycle breaker.
Apply to work 1-1 with me.
I can meet you in that place, with love and so much care. I will WITNESS and EMPOWER you to heal this ancestral trauma, and step beyond it into your freedom!
You will learn how to heal your relationship to yourself and others.
You will learn the tools needed to heal, to remember and to open up to healthy connection and attachment.
You will learn to listen, deeply, to your body and heart and to your loved ones.
You will feel what it is to allow your feelings to be whatever they are. We uncover all the ways numbing and or control happens.
You will find your voice and be able to communicate with clarity, in your truth and in love.
You will let go of those stories which inhibit you.
You will play and and rest in your own joy, pleasure and self awareness.
Mama's, Papa's....You will remember who you are.
Are you ready to be held in your healing?